You can purchase clothes that match your gender identity without being refused service, mocked by staff, or questioned about your genitals.
You can assume that everyone you encounter will understand your identity and will not think you’re confused, misled, or hell-bound when you reveal it to them.
Hollywood accurately depicts people of your gender in films and television, without tokenizing your identity as the focus of a dramatic storyline or the punchline of a joke.
You can easily find role models and mentors to emulate who share your identity.
If you are murdered (or have any crime committed against you), your gender expression will not be used as a justification for your murder (“gay panic”), nor as a reason to coddle the perpetrators.
You do not have to defend your right to be a part of “queer” (or the queer community), and gays and lesbians will not try to exclude you from “their” equal rights movement because of your gender identity (or any equality movement, including feminist rights).
You are not required to undergo an extensive psychological evaluation in order to receive basic medical care.
You don’t have to worry ab out being profiled on the street as a sex worker because of your gender expression.
You don’t need to worry about being placed in a sex-segregated detention center, holding facility, jail, or prison that is incongruent with your identity.
Your identity was not formally (until 2013) considered a mental pathology (“gender identity disorder” in the DSM IV) by the psychological and medical establishments, and still pathologized by the public.
If you end up in the emergency room, you do not have to worry that your gender will keep you from receiving appropriate treatment or that all of your medical issues will be seen as a result of your gender.
You can flirt, engage in courtship, or form a relationship and not fear that your biological status may be cause for rejection or attack, nor will it cause your partner to question their sexual orientation.
You can reasonably assume that your ability to acquire a job, rent an apartment, or secure a loan will not be denied on the basis of your gender identity/expression.
Strangers call you by the name you provide and don’t ask what your “real name” (birth name) is and then assume that they have a right to call you by that name.
You can access gender-exclusive spaces (e.g., a space or activity for women), and not be excluded due to your trans status.
You can walk through the world and generally blend in, not being constantly stared or gawked at, whispered about, pointed at, or laughed at because of your gender expression.
Your validity as a man/woman/human is not based on how much surgery you’ve had or how well you “pass” as non-transgender.
Strangers don’t assume they can ask you what your genitals look like and how you have sex.
You can use public facilities such as gym locker rooms and store changing rooms without stares, fear, or anxiety.
You can use public restrooms without fear of verbal abuse, physical intimidation, or arrest.
Try and be more cognizant and you’ll start to realize how much work we have to do in order to make things better for the transgender folks who don’t have access to these privileges. If you are cisgender, there’s a good chance you’ve never thought about these things (or even your cisgender identity). The word cisgender can also be shortened to “cis.” A simple way to think about it is if a person is not transgender, they are cisgender. : a gender description for when someone’s sex assigned at birth and gender identity correspond in the expected way (e.g., someone who was assigned male at birth, and identifies as a man). If cisgender is a new term to you, here’s how I define it in my list of LGBTQ+ vocabulary:Ĭisgender /“siss-jendur”/ – adj. If you are cisgender, listed below are benefits that result from your alignment of identity and perceived identity. If you appreciate all that jazz, you’ll love this book.įollowing is a list of cisgender identity privileges. Heads up! I wrote a book all about gender that provides tools for standing up against gender-based oppression (like the things below) and working toward a socially justice society.